Defined as:

What? Yes, there are many definitions out there and many perceptions of what a balanced life consists of.

I am here to tell you that you will have a balance at any one point in time and if it’s not balanced, a stress will be put on to your everyday life eventually causing something to change.  There are two things you can do with this stress: 1. choose to continue what you’re doing or 2. chose to change what you’re doing.

Choosing to stay the way you are currently doing life, and push through you may find brings you back to square one…stressful.  This happens if you are the person who has done this each time you visit this situation in your life.  That means if you have already made this same decision…DON’T make it again.  That is defined as insanity.

ON the other hand. If you have never stuck with something or choose to stick with something, seeing it through, then you may want to try that.

If you notice the if’s and thens that I could repeat for a few pages giving scenarios, you get where I am headed with this.

Life is a balancing act. We have seasons of growth and stagnation. Seasons of being children and raising them.  The seasons can last as long as you let them or choose them to be.  Where ever you are at…stop to smell the roses and watch out for the thorns.


BALANCED is learned.

Learn to CHOOSE.

Choose the life you desire and remember…you can ALWAYS choose something else if the first 100 choices don’t work for your season.


Author: Dr. Nicole

Enjoyment of discussion, inspiration and sharing stories and life experiences is part of who I am. I have a lot of great ideas but no time to share them. Here I can write at my leisure. I am a mom, a student and a professional.

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